The Leathermen's Code
HONOR: I will form a bond with other Leathermen. In my associations, I
will not lie, cheat or steal. Nor shall I malign my brothers in leather. I will
pay due respect to all and shall, at all times, settle any and all disputes with
discretion. I shall always respect their privacy and property!
INTEGRITY: I will engage only in SAFE, SAINE and CONSENSUAL activities
and only in activities that are personally known and experienced by me. I will
personally test and experience any unknown activities prior to engaging in any
play with others. I will establish and honor 'safe words' and/or signals for all
activities.
TRUST: I will not misrepresent my abilities to others. I will establish
and abide by set rules of conduct and will always act in the best interests of
all parties in any and all situations. I will not abuse the trust earned and
placed in me by my brothers in leather.
TEMPERANCE: I will recognize the endurance and limits of others. I will
not use or apply any instrument of pain and/or discomfort to others, in any
manner that may exceed reasonable or agreed upon limits. Nor shall I use any
instrument that shall cause deliberate or unnecessary damage, nor any that shall
be a danger to others.
ABC'S Of A Leather Brother
· Accepts
you as you are
· Believes
in "you"
· Calls
you just to say "HI"
· Doesn't
give up on you
· Envisions
the whole of you (even the unfinished parts)
· Forgives
your mistakes
· Gives
unconditionally
· Helps
you when you need it
· Invites
you into his home
· Just
likes being with you
· Keeps
you close at heart
· Loves
you for who you are
· Makes
a difference in your life
· Never
Judges
· Offers
support
· Picks
you up
· Quiets
your fears
· Raises
your spirits
· Says
nice things about you
· Tells
you the truth when you need to hear it
· Understands
you
· Values
you
· Walks
beside you
· X-plains
things you don't understand
· Yells
when you won't listen and
Zaps you back to reality